The Feminist Slut

Take my tears - but that's not nearly all.

17 Apr

Well, as you asked so nicely :-) I didn’t have these any more, but I knew who did - so I asked him to dig them out and email them over, and here they are. The first of these images is the one I used to make the userpic I have on this blog; it was actually made to be a LiveJournal icon. Remember those?

I have a feeling these pictures were taken back in 2007. They are not what you might call ‘recent’. I like them, though.

16 Apr

douglasspencer answered to your photo “Since yesterday I have shot up to here from eighty-something so fast I…”

a full-sized post of the photo which features in your userpic (the one with the thighs) would be very nice.

I’ll see what I can do! I don’t actually have that image any more, but I know who does…

15 Apr
15 Apr I wouldn’t normally have reblogged this one, but THAT IS LITERALLY A RHINESTONE-ENCRUSTED BALL GAG THOUGHWHY DON’T I OWN ITWHY

I wouldn’t normally have reblogged this one, but THAT IS LITERALLY A RHINESTONE-ENCRUSTED BALL GAG THOUGH

WHY DON’T I OWN IT

WHY

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15 Apr

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These are gorgeous photos.

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15 Apr
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15 Apr

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15 Apr submissivefeminist:

This office is shared with two other professors, dear. Did you think I was going to be selfish?

submissivefeminist:

This office is shared with two other professors, dear. Did you think I was going to be selfish?

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14 Apr
I’ve encountered people constantly assuming sex is good and that having sex is just something you do in healthy relationships. This creates a situation where hating sex is a character flaw caused by those terrible sex-negative tropes society presses on you, and obviously only Bad People don’t consent to sex.
That’s rape culture. This is what environments that assume sex is unambiguously a good thing do. Saying, “It’s consensual sex that’s good” doesn’t actually fix the problem. It just creates a situation where you must be consenting to sex, because if you aren’t, you’re not having enough sex and then you’re “sex-negative”.
See, it only fixes a problem where you’re like, “Well I don’t really want to do this right now”. It does not do anything at all to help people who find sex painful. It does nothing at all to help a person who doesn’t want sex, but thinks they do because it’s been so heavily normativized they have to have sex, and have to have it in this specific way. All the, “But make sure it’s consensual!” thing does is tells the person, “Well maybe if you don’t want sex this time it’s okay, but remember you still must be having it some of the time!”
See, to actually fight rape culture you need to say “Sex is always optional. You are never obligated to have sex.” You must always be concerned with consent, and that means you must accept that the answer may very well always be no, despite the fact there’s this belief sex is the greatest thing ever.
And if someone never wants sex, then sex can’t really be a good thing to them, because it’s always unwanted.

Sex Positivity is Rape Culture in Disguise (via youlittlearsonist)

Really like this. We need to find ways of transforming real sex positivity to promote choice in sex, not uncritically promote sex itself. (via swankivy)

This. All of this. (via elementalsight)

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This is something that I really believe in and I dislike that “sex-positive” has such bad history and current problems as well. When I first learned about it, I really thought about it was focused on what this passage is describing, that it is okay to want sex and it is okay to not want sex. Hopefully, my followers know I am all for whatever a person is comfortable with.

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This illustrates wonderfully why this blog is sex-critical. <3

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While I like the phrase “sex-positive”, caveats and clarifications are important. This is a very good post.

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14 Apr Since yesterday I have shot up to here from eighty-something so fast I didn&#8217;t even have a chance to screenshot 100 followers! Thank you, everyone :-)
By way of a celebration, does anyone have any requests?

Since yesterday I have shot up to here from eighty-something so fast I didn’t even have a chance to screenshot 100 followers! Thank you, everyone :-)

By way of a celebration, does anyone have any requests?